Do you know this person, or are you this person:
– unable to maintain relationships
– careless in handling people’s emotions
– thrive in chaos
– live in drama
– attract negative outcomes
– unable to accept responsibility
– unwilling to change or learn
– comfortable/secure in one’s own righteousness
– tell different versions of events to different people
– appears to be the victim
Read this list again. What does such a relationship bring into your life? Keeping company with such means you’ll expend more of yourself in order to maintain this relationship – is that what you want?
No matter how much you give, the results are plain as day. They won’t be good.
Look at the fruits of the people around you to know what type of tree they are, and whether they belong in your garden.